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NYT Opinion Guest Essay This Approach to Addiction Will Cost Lives May 14, 2026
By Maia Szalavitz Ms. Szalavitz is a contributing Opinion writer who covers addiction and public policy. After rising exponentially since 1979, overdose rates have finally begun to decline, falling more than 29 percent since 2022. President Trump has repeatedly claimed that stopping these fatalities is a priority. But recent moves by his administration threaten to stall or even reverse this progress. The Trump administration is now enforcing an executive order against what ar
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May 184 min read
“I Know I Need to Stop Drinking, But I Don’t Want To”: Making Peace with Ambivalence
Originally appeared on the Moderation Management website on October 8, 2025 by Madeleine Zimmerman, MSW, LCSW If you’ve ever thought, “I know I need to stop drinking, but I don’t want to,” you’re not alone. As a therapist, I hear this phrase often: “I know I need to stop, but…” It’s usually followed by: “I don’t want to.” “…I can’t imagine my social life without it.” “…I’m afraid of failing.” That little word—but—carries a lot of weight. It’s the sound of ambivalence. And he
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Mar 113 min read
Cravings Aren’t Commands: How Urge Surfing Can Set You Free
September 6, 2025/by Madeleine Zimmerman, originally appeared on the Moderation Management website One of the most powerful tools for managing alcohol cravings is urge surfing. Paired with grounding techniques, urge surfing helps you feel calmer, more in control, and less reactive when cravings strike. Have you ever felt a craving come out of nowhere, that sudden pull toward a drink that feels impossible to resist? You’re not alone. The good news: cravings are a lot like wave
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Jan 53 min read
Help! It's the Holidays! When you don’t feel like drinking, or want to drink less, here are some ideas by Dee-Dee Stout www.deedeestoutconsulting.com
Help! It’s the Holidays!! When you don’t feel like drinking, or want to drink less, here’s some ideas One of my favorite things to do around this time before the holiday season is in full swing is to look around for articles on non-alcoholic beverages, otherwise known as NA drinks. When I stopped drinking alcohol decades ago, the only choice out there was a really awful NA beer, O’Douls. Ugh. I don’t think I even finished my first one, it was so bad. So, I stopped looking fo
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Dec 3, 20258 min read
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